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Lucas Graham

Lucas Graham, based in Auckland, writes about the psychology behind everyday decisions and life choices. His perspective is grounded in the belief that understanding oneself is the key to better decision-making. Lucas’s articles are a mix of personal anecdotes and observations, offering readers relatable and down-to-earth advice.
51 Articles

7 types of people you need to cut from your life if you want to be rich and successful

Jim Rohn once said "You are the average of the five people

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The art of slowing down: 7 ways to reduce stress and find more peace in 2025

With tech, work, and the constant barrage of pings, life these days

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7 subtle habits of life’s most resilient people, according to psychology

Resilience is a trait we admire in so many inspiring figures. Think

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People who are calm on the surface but in survival mode underneath usually display these 8 behaviors

There's often a significant gap between how people appear on the outside

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Men who try too hard to prove themselves usually display these 8 behaviors (without realizing it)

It's a tricky thing, navigating the world of masculinity. You know the

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People who lack a sense of purpose in retirement usually display these 8 behaviors (without realizing it)

When someone retires, you'd expect them to be content, right? But oftentimes,

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People who are intellectually brilliant but have zero emotional intelligence usually display these 8 behaviors

Intellectual brilliance is a remarkable asset, but without emotional intelligence, it can

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People who are sweet and kind on the surface but really selfish underneath usually display these 7 behaviors

There's a fine line between genuine kindness and hidden selfishness. Sometimes, people

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