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Lucas Graham

Lucas Graham, based in Auckland, writes about the psychology behind everyday decisions and life choices. His perspective is grounded in the belief that understanding oneself is the key to better decision-making. Lucas’s articles are a mix of personal anecdotes and observations, offering readers relatable and down-to-earth advice.
51 Articles

People who don’t have the strength to leave a bad relationship typically display these 7 traits

It’s easy to tell someone else to “just walk away,” but when

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Men who had no strong role models growing up often develop these 8 qualities later in life

Navigating through life without a strong role model is like setting sail

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People who disown friends or family as they get older usually display these 7 specific traits

Disowning friends or family as one gets older is often a result

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People who grew up with extremely frugal parents often display these 7 behaviors as adults

Growing up with super frugal parents can leave a lasting impact, and

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9 subtle phrases a narcissist will use to communicate that you’re beneath them

Navigating conversations with a narcissist can often feel like walking through a

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People who grew up in the shadow of a sibling usually display these 8 behaviors as adults

Growing up in the shadow of a sibling can have lasting effects.

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8 traits of people who feel an unhealthy need to be right, according to psychology

As individuals, we all love to be right. It's a validation of

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7 clever ways to deal with a chronic complainer at work

Dealing with a constant complainer at work can be a real energy-drainer.

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8 things you don’t realize you’re doing because you have a high level of intelligence

When you solve a puzzle, you know you're smart; when you ace

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If you recognize these 7 behaviors, you have a deeply egotistical person in your life

There's a clear distinction between self-confidence and sheer egotism. The difference lies

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