There’s a stark contrast between merely aging and aging happily.
The difference? It’s all about habits.
Some behaviors, deeply ingrained in our routine, can quietly drain the joy from our golden years.
Yet, by willingly choosing to let go of certain habits, we open the door to a happier life in our 60s and beyond.
In this article, I’ll share the seven habits you might want to bid farewell to as you navigate life’s later chapters.
These are small changes, but they can have a big impact on your happiness levels, and even your business success.
Remember, it’s never too late to make a change for the better.
Let’s dive into how you can start today.
1) Procrastination
As we grow older, time becomes even more precious.
Yet, many of us have a habit of putting things off until the last minute.
It’s a habit that seeps into all areas of our life, including our personal lives, our health, and even our business decisions.
Procrastination can lead to stress and missed opportunities but, more than that, it can rob you of the simple joys in life.
The joy of accomplishing a task, the joy of peace of mind knowing you’ve done what needed to be done.
There’s a saying that goes, “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.”
It rings true, especially as we age.
By tackling tasks promptly instead of delaying them, we free up time for ourselves in the future.
Time we can spend doing things we love.
You’ll be surprised at how much lighter you feel when you stop carrying around the weight of uncompleted tasks.
2) Neglecting self-care
Trust me, I’ve been there.
Running a business, dealing with life’s curveballs—it’s easy to deprioritize self-care.
I remember a time when I was so caught up in meeting deadlines and managing my team that I barely had time for a proper meal; I survived on coffee and takeout, and exercise was a distant memory.
And sleep? That was for the ‘free’ time I never had.
It took a toll on my health and my happiness—it wasn’t until I faced a health scare that I realized the value of taking care of myself first.
Self-care is not just about spas and vacations.
It’s about eating nutritious meals, getting regular exercise, and ensuring you get a good night’s sleep; it’s about taking moments to breathe and relax amidst the hustle.
As we head into our 60s and beyond, self-care becomes even more critical.
Our bodies need more care, and so do our minds.
3) Resistance to technology
In today’s digital age, technology is all around us.
It’s transforming how we communicate, work, shop, and even unwind.
Yet, many of us in our golden years have a certain resistance towards embracing technology.
It might seem too complicated, too fast-paced or even unnecessary.
Here’s something to consider: Studies show that seniors who engage with technology report higher rates of satisfaction and a better quality of life.
Technology can help us stay connected with family and friends, keep our minds sharp, and simplify everyday tasks.
It can also help us stay informed and engaged with the world.
If you’re looking to live a happier life in your 60s and beyond, it could be time to say goodbye to your fear or resistance of technology.
You don’t have to become a tech wizard overnight, but being open to learning can make a world of difference.
4) Living in the past
It’s natural to reminisce about the ‘good old days’.
Fond memories can bring a smile to our face and warmth to our hearts, but there’s a difference between reminiscing and living in the past.
When we dwell too much on what was, it can hinder our ability to appreciate what is.
We might find ourselves comparing everything to the past—our health, our finances, and even our happiness levels.
Life changes, and so do we.
It’s a time to create fresh memories, not just relive old ones.
By saying goodbye to the habit of living in the past, we make room for the present.
That’s where true happiness lies—in the here and now.
5) Ignoring your feelings
I’ll admit, I used to be a master of brushing my feelings under the rug.
If something bothered me, I’d put on a brave face and carry on.
I believed it was better to keep things to myself than to burden others with my thoughts or emotions, but bottling up emotions is like shaking a soda can.
Eventually, the pressure builds up, and it has to go somewhere.
I learned the hard way that acknowledging and expressing my feelings is vital for my mental well-being.
It’s okay to admit when you’re scared, upset, or unsure; it’s okay to share your feelings with others.
As we navigate through our 60s and beyond, we encounter a multitude of changes—some exciting, others daunting.
It’s important to allow ourselves to feel, process, and express our emotions during these times.
If you want to live a happier life, start saying goodbye to the habit of ignoring your feelings.
Embrace your vulnerability—it’s not a sign of weakness but a testament to your strength.
6) Over-committing
Have you ever noticed how easy it is to say “yes” to everything?
To take on more tasks, make more commitments, squeeze in just one more meeting?
We often do this out of a sense of obligation or fear of disappointing others but over-committing can lead to stress, burnout, and a lack of time for the things we truly enjoy.
It’s like trying to fill a cup that’s already overflowing.
As we move into our 60s and beyond, our time becomes even more valuable.
It’s important to prioritize what truly matters to us and learn to say “no” when necessary.
Saying “no” means you respect your time and energy, and—by doing so—you open up space for the things that truly bring you joy and satisfaction.
7) Neglecting relationships
At the end of the day, our relationships are what truly enrich our lives.
They provide us with support, laughter, and a sense of belonging—but it’s easy to take them for granted, especially when life gets busy.
As we age, nurturing our relationships becomes even more essential.
Studies show that strong social connections can boost our mental and physical health, and even increase longevity.
If you’re seeking a happier life in your 60s and beyond, it’s time to say goodbye to the habit of neglecting your relationships.
Reach out to old friends, spend quality time with your family, make new connections.
It’s the people in our lives that make the journey worthwhile.
Final thoughts: The power is in your hands
No two people age the same way.
We all have our unique journeys and experiences, our distinct joys and challenges.
Yet, one common thread binds us all—the desire for happiness.
As we traverse through our 60s and beyond, it’s vital to remember that our happiness is not a mere consequence of external circumstances.
It’s a choice we make, a result of the habits we cultivate.
Each habit we’ve discussed holds the potential to transform your golden years into a time of joy, fulfillment, and contentment.
The power to live a happier life is in your hands.
As the renowned psychiatrist Viktor Frankl once said, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
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